Are you looking for a way to learn to control your angry outburts? If so, you've come to the right place. This site aims to educate you on what causes anger and how you can combat it.

Anger - it's a very natural emotion, it sends signals to all parts of our body to help us fight or flee from dangerous situations. It energizes us to prepare us for action. This was a very necessary thing in the past when we were faced with the threat of wild animals but in today's world the threats to our well being are usually more psychological than physical in nature.

It is therefore, something we need to learn to manage properly. Anger can be very destructive to both ourselves and others around us if we are not able to call a halt to our actions. Using the information in this website you can learn the common causes of anger and ways to recognise them before they happen. Understand the elements in your life you can gain control over as well as techniques you can use. By employing these methods or where necessary getting professional help you will quickly learn to live a more relaxed and happy life.


Understanding an Angry Person

What is it that is making someone angry or display angry behaviours?  Why do they shout, become aggressive and sometimes violent?

The answer is bound to be very complex considering the complexity of us humans.  We have so many different experiences throughout our lives, as children, teenagers and adults that affect us. Some negative experiences can hurt us so much that when we perceive, rightly or wrongly, that a similar event is happening again, this can set off alarm bells to warn us of the ‘danger’.  Examples of this

Controlling anger by controlling your emotions.

How many times have you decided not to lose control of your temper only to watch yourself turn into the incredible hulk;- angry, aggressive trying to find ways to unleash the awful rage that is inside you.  Furniture, objects, strangers and sometimes the people you love are on the receiving end.  You end up so angry, you feel filled with hate and as if you could take revenge on someone without remorse.  Except…that’s not how you really feel.  When you’ve calmed down and are back to your normal self, you can feel guilty and embarrassed by your behaviour and the

Breaking the patterns of angry outbursts

One thing you have probably noticed in all the angry outburst and conflicts that occur is that there are patterns to them. Things might change slightly with each different instance, but in general, they will usually all play out in a similar way.  This is true for how your anger begins and then erupts.  If you try, you will probably see that certain kinds of things set you off far more quickly than others and that the emotions you feel inside are always quite similar.  Also the speed at which you lose your temper is the same.  You may notice